Notes from Monsignor Rob

Clinging to the Vine

Just as a branch cannot bear fruit on its own unless it remains on the vine, so neither can you unless you remain in me. I am the vine, you are the branches. Whoever remains in me and I in him will bear much fruit, because without me you can do nothing. These words from Sunday’s Gospel remind us plainly that we must spend our entire life staying connected to Jesus who is the vine. Aside from the regular pruning that the Lord does, we should never cut ourselves off from being one with Jesus who gives us all that

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Responding to the Good Shepherd’s Call

On this Good Shepherd Sunday, the Church asks us to be attentive to the call to priesthood, religious life, and the diaconate. “World Day of Prayer for Vocations” is an invitation to ask the Lord of the harvest to send more workers into the vineyard – more disciples who live entirely in the service of the Gospel. I was privileged to serve as director of vocations of our diocese and rectory of our college seminary for several years. In my time working with our seminarians, I was humbled by their generous response to God’s call to priesthood and their courage

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OF MANY THINGS

Last Saturday Bishop Caggiano gave our middle schoolers the gift of the Sacrament of Confirmation. The Bishop’s words to sponsors, parents, and those confirmed were nothing short of inspiring. Bishop Frank challenged the young people to be great, which he defined as being holy. In this age of social media and too much information, it is imperative to be the person Jesus wants us to be and to stay close to Him in the Church. First Holy Eucharist will be celebrated at the end of April, so please keep our little ones in your prayers as they joyfully anticipate receiving

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Receiving Mercy

As I make my way back to the parish from a time of physical healing, I am very aware of the mercy of God. This Sunday, the second Sunday of Easter, is also Divine Mercy. Saint Faustina received from God a vision of Christ with rays of mercy emanating from His body, mercy that extends far beyond what we who are sinners could imagine. Christ Himself desires the world to know of His generous mercy in spite of our sinfulness and unworthiness, and He made that clear to Faustina: “All grace flows from mercy, and the last hour abounds with

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Christ, My Hope, Is Arisen

Christians, to the Paschal Victim Offer your thankful praises! A Lamb the sheep redeems; Christ, who only is sinless, Reconciles sinners to the Father. Death and life have contended in that combat stupendous: The Prince of life, who died, reigns immortal. Speak, Mary, declaring What you saw, wayfaring. “The tomb of Christ, who is living, The glory of Jesus’ resurrection; bright angels attesting, The shroud and napkin resting. Yes, Christ my hope is arisen; to Galilee he goes before you.” Christ indeed from death is risen, our new life obtaining. Have mercy, victor King, ever reigning! Amen. Alleluia. This ancient

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Holy Week Humility

Christ Jesus, though he was in the form of God, did not regard equality with God something to be grasped. Rather, he emptied himself, taking the form of a slave, coming in human likeness; and found human in appearance, he humbled himself, becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross. ~Phillipians 2:6-8 In order to embrace the Paschal Mystery – the suffering, dying, and rising of Jesus – we have to embrace the humility of Jesus. His entrance into Jerusalem which we celebrate on this Palm Sunday is nothing like that of a king. He rides

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Sacrifice

The story of Abraham’s intention to sacrifice his son Isaac doesn’t resonate well on first hearing. Would a father really take the life of his son because God asked him to? While a shining (though difficult) example of obedience to the will of God, the story makes sense only in light of the sacrifice of Jesus on Good Friday. We are consoled when the angel instructs Abraham to halt the slaying and what follows is praise from God for Abraham’s faithfulness. But we might still go back to the moment when Abraham decided to carry out God’s original instructions, and

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Of Many things….

As we begin this Lenten Season, I want to take some time to reflect and to update you on happenings in the parish. First of all, a long overdue thank you to everyone who made our Advent and Christmas season a truly lifegiving experience of prayer, song, and beauty. Our choir concert was spectacular, uplifting, and drew one of the largest crowds ever! Thank you Dr. John Michniewicz, Nancy Leville, our children’s and adult choirs, soloists, instrumentalists, and our wonderful music patrons who helped us to celebrate the Newborn King on that day and all of our December days of

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Let’s Experience Lent as a Parish Family of Faith

It’s hard to believe that this coming Wednesday is Ash Wednesday! The season of Lent provides the opportunity to truly enter into the mystery of the Lord’s passion where we witness His great sacrificial love for us. In the suffering and dying of Jesus, we experience mercy, forgiveness, and a Savior who knows what it is like when we suffer. Lent is a time when we traditionally “give up” something as a form of personal sacrifice to unite ourselves with the suffering of Christ. Let’s challenge one another this Lent to first pray about our how we will pray, fast,

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The Life of a Priest

To live in the midst of the world without wishing its pleasures; To be a member of each family, yet belonging to none; To share all suffering; to penetrate all secrets; To heal all wounds; to go from men to God and offer Him their prayers; To return from God to men to bring pardon and hope; To have a heart of fire for Charity, and a heart of bronze for Chastity To teach and to pardon, console and bless always. My God, what a life; and it is yours, O priest of Jesus Christ. This reflection by Fr. Jean-Baptiste

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Faithful Servant Leo E. Karl, Jr.

It was a year ago that Michael Musilli, our faithful sacristan who so generously served our parish, began his journey into Eternal Life. At that time, I wrote about Michael’s great love for the Eucharist, the Catholic Church, and his parish family of Saint Aloysius. It is with great sadness and with a heart filled with gratitude for a life well-lived that I write this column as a tribute to Leo E. Karl, Jr., Trustee Emeritus of Saint Aloysius Parish who began his journey to Heaven on January 13, 2024. While the official role of a parish trustee is to

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Look to Bethlehem

In his Urbi et Orbi message to the world last Christmas, Pope Francis asked us to look to Bethlehem for the true hope that is Christmas: Brothers and sisters, let us turn our eyes to Bethlehem, and listen to the first faint cries of the Prince of Peace. For truly Jesus is our peace. The peace that the world cannot give, the peace that God the Father has bestowed on humanity by sending his Son into the world. Saint Leo the Great summed up the message of this day in a concise Latin phrase: Natalis Domini, natalis est pacis: “the

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Wait. Rejoice. Repeat.

I rejoice heartily in the LORD, in my God is the joy of my soul. (Isaiah 61:1) The word “rejoice” appears throughout this Sunday’s Scripture, and it is a wonderful reminder to wait in Advent with joyful anticipation of God’s great gift to the world. The promised Messiah described in the prophecy of Isaiah is cause for rejoicing because He will come to renew the world: “As the earth brings forth its plants, and a garden makes its growth spring up, so will the Lord GOD make justice and praise spring up before all the nations.” Saint Paul echoes the

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John the Baptist

In this second week of Advent, we are re-introduced to John, the cousin of Jesus, who has a prophetic message for his followers about the Messiah who has been born into the world and is about to begin a ministry of healing and conversion of heart. John is a unique character in the cast of those who a part of the story of salvation. His own story is marked with miracle, promise, and challenge. One day an angel appeared to Zachary and announced that he and his wife, Elizabeth, would have a son named John who would prepare Israel to

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Praying in Advent

“Hallow” (hallow.com) is a popular Catholic online site that offers practical ways to pray and stay focused on our relationship with Christ in the midst of our busy lives. As we make room in our hearts for Christ who comes at Christmas, I found Hallow’s short Advent prayers to be very helpful. I’m sharing them with you because I believe that they may provide a way to keep us centered and hopeful in these days when the world is so restless. Dear Lord, please allow me to embrace Advent in the way the Church intends: as a way to prepare

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Following a New King

As we contemplate the end of the Church Year, the Solemnity of Christ the King, and the beginning of Advent, I thought it might be a good idea to try a spiritual exercise that will help us as we prepare for Christmas – and the rest of our lives. The meditation that follows is in the tradition of Ignatian spirituality. I hope you find it helpful. In our day and age, it’s difficult to grasp the concept of a human king. In Ignatius’ time, this was much easier. But today we live in a world that values democracy, shared leadership,

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Thanksgiving, Eucharist, and Christ the King

It’s hard to believe that Thanksgiving is this week! This national holiday provides a wonderful opportunity, I believe, to reflect on the blessings God has given us and to connect those blessings to the Eucharist and the Feast of Christ the King, the solemnity we will celebrate next weekend. The word “Eucharist” has its roots in Greek and it means “thanksgiving.” It is the meal where we are drawn into the Paschal Mystery – the suffering, dying, and rising of Jesus. Around the table of the Eucharist, we are recalling – in fact re-living – Jesus’ great sacrifice, and that

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Praying for the Souls in Purgatory

I am deeply grateful to all who offered prayers at the time of my mother’s passing. Thank you for your kind expressions of sympathy; they meant a lot to my family and me. Right after my mom’s death, my mind was swirling as I was imagining her on her journey. That brought me to contemplate Heaven and Purgatory. The Church dedicates the month of November to the Holy Souls, our brothers and sisters who are on their way to Heaven. I thought I would offer a little teaching about Purgatory, a gift from God for our dear loved ones who

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Update on our Parish Project

It’s been a while since I gave an update on our parish project, including where we stand with raising the funds to complete every aspect of it, so here are some highlights. I’ll keep you posted as we move forward. Upgrades in the Church Every pew will be repaired, refinished, and reinstalled by December 18th. The finishing touches on the brighter carpeting will be completed once all of the pews have been reinstalled. In case of any staining, the carpet is easy to clean The flooring under the pews is a new, durable and easy-to-clean material; the last of the

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Congratulations 2023 St. Augustine Medal of Service Recipients Bill and Mary Beth Fessler

A rainy day next to a construction site might be a less than ideal setting for an occasion as joyous as the Conferral of the St. Augustine Medal of Service. But, as Bishop Frank J. Caggiano quipped, God chose just that day, “in his infinite wisdom” to honor the faithful gathered at St. Augustine Cathedral on October 14, 2023. Established by Bishop William E, Lori in 2005, the St. Augustine Medal of Service recognizes men and women from across the Diocese of Bridgeport whose exemplary service to Christ and his Church is lived out in extraordinary service in the parishes,

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